The way I see it, it can mean one of two things.

1. She was horny, you were there. (that's a good thing, she didn't go get some somewhere else)

2. She wanted to emotionally connect with you thru the physical act of sex. (this is a good thing, she wanted it with you)

Is there a problem with either one of these ?

If she reaches out to you, take her hand, if she kisses you, kiss her back, if she wants to have sex & you're okay with having sex, go ahead......if she smiles it's a good sign.

It's simple, meet her where she's at.

any other questions ?


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.