DQ's Sex Blog

[Cinco]

Dance, I did control it about the driving spat. I was really proud of myself. I didn't stuff my feelings about it I just bit my tongue I didn't say what was really on my mind. I just firmly encouraged them to keep at it and don't give up.

Don't worry I would never send her to that site and I haven't even bought a sex guide yet (thanks for the recomendation). No way we are ready for that step yet. Right now we are just warming up to each other again and getting used to the idea that it *does* really feel good to have that intimacy back. We even haven't really done much R talk lately. After that week where I kept talking R I decided, enough talk start doing those things and let the changes sink in.

Only when those changes are solidly in place will I try R talk again. One step at a time. In my case less talk and analysis and more consistant action works best.

The submissive light bulb was more of a hmmmm fascinating, wonder if moment than, that is the answer to everything! I do know the more of a lead role I take the more she likes it anyway.