Just keep DB'ing. Keep cool no matter what happens. That's if you still want her back. I know it's hard to keep strong when everything seems to be crumbling around you.
You just stopped the chasing recently and it takes time for it to be effective. No one knows the future - I mean no one. If I only had a nickle for every time I predicted incorrectly...
Negative projection is easy. Try to keep your mind in neutral or positive territory. Good luck.
Ken
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