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The optimism I had as a newbie has dropped into the sad cynicism in the knowledge that I could not salvage my marriage.

Huh?

I say this with support and friendship: I think you need to reread your thread, DB, DR, etc.

You came here to change yourself. It takes TWO to salvage a marriage. This was not a failure..it was a lesson in life.

Lift yourself up and change the cynicism into pride....that you honored your vows and did everything you could to be a better person and better understand what happened and why.

Find your invincible summer.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;