I've asked him to go to other marriage conferences and he flat out refuses. Saying that I never follow what they say and he's sick of marriage conferences (we've been to 2, and one was a marriage comedy tour).
Same thing with marriage counseling. Why should we go when I won't do that they suggest.
(((ms b)))
Retro or C are great if your spouse agrees. Of the sitches I follow here in Separated (Lola, Michelle, sawks) none of the WAS's are there yet, and they have the same reasons as your H.
Personally, think when Retro or C happens, you're already in Piecing. So let's get there. We're in this together!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK