Cinco...be careful not to look for an "answer" at "Taken".
Even if your wife secretly yearns for that type of lifestyle, at first, if confronted with it, she will likely be opposed to the idea that she can be neatly described in a box like that. Does that make sense? In other words, she isn't fully aware *herself* right now what she truly wants. She will not read through that website and go "oh my goodness, finally something that describes me to a T!"
People want to feel they are special, and that their feelings are not just the same as every one else's. It is difficult to pass along something really new and radical, such as the "Taken" website as "look honey, I read this and wonder if possibly you are feeling this way"?
There is a lot of work to do between you first.
First instance...your story about the driving had me a little bummed out for you that you are struggling with patience in that regard. Do you know what a gift it would be to your wife and children if you could just allow them to have their spats and problems without it upsetting you on top of it all?
Things like that need to be worked on before you try to *define* you and your wife's roles to a definitive end.
And as for Baggy...he's a doctor whether he wants to be or not. ;0)
Some people are natural healers, and many healers heal others before they themselves get healed.
"Look for the bare necessities, The simple bare necessities, forget about your worries and your strife! I mean the Bare necessities are mother nature's recipes..."
Ah I miss the days when my kids were little and I could watch Disney movies with them over and over....oh wait a minute....HECK NO I DO NOT MISS THOSE DAYS! I couldn't swing from chandaliers then! LOL!
Both of you Baggy and Cinco...There is a book called "Guide to Getting it On"....best sex book EVER. More of a manual than a self-help book, including beautiful sexy illustrations....best money I ever spent!!!
Link to the book at amazon (not sure where else to get it - I got mine at Barnes and Noble but it was a while ago):
