happycamper: I'm wondering though if one's spouse is basically saying that they don't want to be with you anymore, they are quite certain and they are so certain they are with someone else
attitudes and emotions change and a lot of people here are working on reconciling their M. One day, its I don't love you and several months or years, its I made a mistake they come to reality and want to reconcile, some never do come back.
I cannot say that I'm 100% against reconciliation with W, but it would take considerable effort on her part.
All I'm trying to do right now is secure my kids, my house, my finances and get our lives (me and the kids) into some normal mode. If W comes back later and wants to reconcile, I'll deal with that at that point.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
