New Abbreviation for everyone VI

[happycamper]

I'm wondering though if one's spouse is basically saying that they don't want to be with you anymore, they are quite certain and they are so certain they are with someone else (or in my case have been with half of the UK and are looking for someone else) how long you prolong your own agony? Maybe that is what DBing is all about, but surely if the spouse is certain DBing has it's limitations.

I made my half of the decision the day he told me and it certainly gave me a sense of control (mind you, when he eventually coughed I was relieved quite frankly). I suppose every R is different.

If your W doesn't want to be with you, and you don't want to be with her (if I remember rightly the phrase you used was 'run for the hills'!) then... it's simple, isn't it? Please, if someone with more wisdom and years than I is able to correct me, go ahead.