Hey Bridge, really good job on not jumping into help DAHusband with S. My kids come to me for everything because they know I'll listen to their views, they can speak openly, then I'll think it over & get back to them. They even have a phrase that one of them started a few years ago....if I've made a decision & I'm firm, they'll say "request permission to speak freely?" lol

I promise, I was never a drill sergeant. \:\)

About BOB...rofl. Thank goodness my kids still use batteries like crazy. tee hee


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.