Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Exactly what I will do. He did call today - he is taking our S-18 to orientation at UK next week and had some questions about that. Kept it real light. He has been talking about going to his HS reunion next weekend, probably not going to, but before when he mentioned it I went crazy. Very jealous, accusing of wanting to see an old flame, etc. This time he mentioned it and that it was his weekend with the kids so he didn't think he'd go. I just said I'd be happy to switch if he wanted and could get away. He said he didn't think he'd even know anyone and we laughed about that. It all was very nice. He even offered to give me extra money to go to mine - which is in Iowa so quite a distance.
I am backing way off and being very friendly but very busy.

Interesting take on men's vulnerability. I think you are absolutely right. Interesting...again never thought about it like that before.