Scott, not quite sure what to say but I am noticing similar changes with my W ever since the bomb. I am waiting for her to crash out of exhaustion. I don't know how much longer she can keep up staying up late and getting up early. I could see in her facial expressions yesterday that she's tired.

As for the going dark/LRT...as I understand they are different but I could be wrong. I am LRT with my WAW and seeing some positive signs but the roller coaster ride is far from over. I too often feel that I am being tested and I actually got chided for not showing enough emotion about the sitch and for ignoring her. Well, even though I am LRT, I am going to try some words of affirmation (one of her love languages) to see if that helps.

One question that comes to mind ( I haven't read the entire sitch but lot's of parts) is the OM supporting her gambling habit?

LS

Me 34
W 33
D 4
S 2
M 5
T 8
Bomb 6/17/08
Served 7/17/08
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