Dance you are a one-of-kind lady, I'm not sure if you are inspiring us SSM guys on here or torturing us.... Stop... don't... stop... don't stop... don't stop... don't stop...
Doc B. has enlightened me on something that I had never seen before when commenting on Silly's thread - maybe I have this "Taken in Hand" (I'll be researching that site for sure) type of relationship with my own wife. Here are the reasons why I think this may be the case:
- She NEVER initiates, that has always been left up to me.
- During ML she ALWAYS wants me to take the lead on what we do. If I ask, "do you want me to do 'this' or 'that'?", the answer is usually "yes" or "whatever you want to do."
- If I try to ask her what SHE wants, the answer is usually, "I don't know, what do you want?"
- She is NOT VOCAL at all, this even happens if there is no one around to hear the noises. This used to bother me until she explained that she can concentrate better on her O in silence. (I now wonder if there is a submissive side to it too.)
- I have tried to coax instruction from her about what I should do differently during an act and she resists. I think it even annoys her for me to ever ask.
- She will resist trying new things, but if I insist she will usually go along and then enjoy it.
This even happened last night, I took charge and she just really seemed to let go. I tried something that she sometimes does not prefer, but in this "let go" state she just went with it and loved the experience (big O).
Have the two of us been in the dark all of these years about this and that has been part of our problem???
