I am still checking in with you and kind of lurking. I know you feel a little bad about all this L stuff, but you are doing the right thing. The kids need to learn about boundaries, functional love relationships, and all things healthy. Just know you will feel better in 6 months.
Good luck with the Tri, buddy!
Best, --Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08