Marcum, as it states clearly in DR, if what you are doing is not working, you need to change it up.
OK, so let's say you DID neglect her early in the marriage. You then paid a lot of attention to her, and tried to make up for lost time. That pushed her away even more!
So now, you are giving her space, to let her organize her thoughts. You are not ignoring her. You answer when she calls, you return her emails and texts...just not right away.
So the answer is no, you are not neglecting her.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
