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[MichelleLT]

There will be a process back towards you if she makes that decision. For now, she is set on her path. She may turn back, but it will be like a huge cruise ship making a u-turn, it will take time.

Pride will factor in. I think that is usually more of a problem with a WAH than a WAW most times however.

None of us predict the future. But you do have control over you, which can change the outcome for the better, as you have already seen in the baby steps.

Also, keep in mind, she may need to actually move out before she realizes exactly what she'll be missing. It may be part of the process she needs to go through.

Nothing is final until YOU give up hope.

Hang in there.

How much is the gym membership? If it's not much, it might be wise to let it lie if/until she decides to move out or something.

If you can think you can have a no-pressure conversation, go with, just FYI, you aren't covered under my work, so I put it on my visa. Then see what SHE wants to do?