Marcum, I'm so sorry. It made me sad to see the title of your new thread. I can say that even with papers, it's not over. I was served papers 5yrs ago, and we're still here today. I'm pretty sure, look into it, but I don't think she can serve you the papers herself. Needs to be done by a third party. She needs to pay for the car herself, or turn it in for something less expensive. You are not to pay for it. If this is what she wants, then she needs to live in reality. Ask the lawyer about alimony because your wife will likely bring that up as well
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."