Originally Posted By: redsawks44
i got my copy of DR today.. and in chapter 1 : family/friend influence..i know there is ALOT.. but my W is strong and will hopefully make up her own mind.. i think it's alot about saving face for her now that she sees i've changed..(i know it has to be long term).. but now that she has made a drama out of it..

make sense?



Yes, makes a lot of sense. I'm in the same situation. Hopefully our wives are strong enough. It took a lot of strength to leave and get our attention in the first place, though we may not like it.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK