You've written so much about your W and what she's doing....

Focus on YOU.

What are your current goals for you? Action steps?

Stop trying to figure out what W is doing or why. Unless she tells you, it is just a story you are creating that may or may not be true.

Focus on YOU.

I'm sorry...here is a 2x4 but it's kindly meant...your posts here are coming off as if you are arrogant--W is messed up, you are not, and so you have to fix her like she's some sort of child. If I'm feeling that, I wonder if your W is feeling that too.

Now, this may not be how you feel, but it's how your posts come off.

So, take your eyes off of W and focus on YOU. What is Scott doing to improve himself? PMA, GAL, 180s? What are your goals for you?

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!