Um...Baggy? You would be 100% incorrect with the assumption that I would balk at a male-led relationship. My man physically and roughly takes me regularly, and we even go much farther than that at times into true sexual domination and submission. I love a good spanking from him on a regular basis. So there!
:0)
Plus it goes on outside the bedroom as well...he takes the lead on nearly everything and I LOVE IT.
I rest my case! <bangs gavel>
You're such a sweetheart, DQ -- thanks for the support. I'm still so UN-used to this new relationship, that I keep expecting a hew and cry of feminist rage to occur whenever I bring up what's starting to work for us. And you also lend great credence to my observation that it is often the more intelligent, strong women who want this type of relationship --> they've proven themselves in the "man's" world, and can now relax and consent to what really makes them happy with their man. Bless you all!
A humorous note about erotic spanking: I tried this with my wife for the first time only recently, and on the first swing, my arm literally froze -- and the mental battle ensued. I was brought up to NEVER hit girls, and what was I about to do? to the woman I loved above all others? I must have looked like a strange statue for a few seconds there. It was only by shear force of will, and trust in my wife, that I broke through that barrier...and with good results for her ;).
<sigh> The things I do for love....
-- B.
Last edited by Bagheera; 07/03/0804:51 PM.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
