(((Jon))) Just catching up, you are doing great!!! When I say my H's name ("Andy") people look at me like I an strange too. Is that your H? Uh, yes. I find that during the marriage we did not refer to each other by name, either Honey, My Love, but we forgot that we are too people. So now I see that we both use the name, and I am not sure if that is good or bad lol.
But you seem to be doing great, and the fact that your W is showing some independence is a fantastic thing. Sometimes we need to be ripped apart to start over I think...
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..