Attitude is everything, Rusty. I'm certain if you're upbeat and excited, your daughter will be too, or at least, more so.

Any chance the two of you could do something special and start your own tradition in addition to the picnic?

I wouldn't ask about the holiday. If he brings it up, casually tell him you have plans, but I wouldn't be specific.

Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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