We were talking by Skype before I moved (6/1/08), but I haven't had interenet service, so I haven't been accessable. We have exchanged short e-mails, about once a week. She has checked in to see how I was doing, in another, she stated that she has remained friends with all her ex's (past boyfriends), and that I am still her "best friend" right now and she knows we will be friends for ever and that she "will always keep track" of me.
She just sent me another e-mail with a funny bilboard and said she "knew i would like it".
As for the book, I did send it a month ago, and she said she received it when it arrived, but hasn't discussed it since. I've also read "art of happiness", it's and interview with the Dalai Lama. Also, "Getting Unstuck" by Pema Chondron.
I don't think she would feel pressured toward geting back together, but one of the pressures she felt from me was always suggesting ways she could be happier (she sometimes had a negative outlook, and also got stressed and tense and I would try to give suggestions to change her frame of mind. Sometimes it would help and sometimes it would back fire and make things worse.)
