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Not yet. But entire family is invited, so if K's go I will as well. Otherwise not too sure. EGF H is a good guy putting up with $hit of his own and we get along good enough to enjoy an evening together. Will play it by ear.


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[quote=Puppy Dog Tails
Leave the ball in her court, while keeping your guard up. If she repeatedly brings up the D word, then you would be wise to seek at least an initial consultation with a good family law attorney.

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Puppy,

I have had an initial consult back in Feb when I found out. Have another next week - just in case.

Here's one for the WTF file (it is getting full). I am taking D16 out to drive last night (she takes her test for her license today ) and D16 says she is supposed to talk to me about getting her a car.

So, WW is now ok with us getting D16 a car, having an extra payment to take into account, and yet saying she wants D. AND to top it all off, she is actively putting D16 in the middle of this cr@p!!!!!!!!!!!

That makes me want to puke! (which is what she said she wanted to do when she found out I contacted OMW) \:\/


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ok - have to get back to reality...

Need help in focusing here, but not for the same old reason as I mentioned above. There are 2 very attractive single F at work that have in the last few weeks started having nice little conversations with me. Clearly, not something I would take any farther, even if I could, but they both are very friendly, smile extremely nice and are interested in what I am doing. Makes me feel very good - obviously something missing from my life right now.

I generally have been able to re-focus after talking to them. But today, having a tough time.

Sorry, had to get that off my chest. Hopefully now I can re-focus on what I need to.


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Be a good boy, Lost -- there'll be plenty of time for that later, if things don't work out with your wife. Right now you're fighting to save your marriage, remember? LOL

Eeeasssssy, boy. Easy.

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I know Puppy. Just had to get it out of my system. Don't want to go there at all, but if I have to at some point, nice to know ...


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I know what you mean, brother.

I know what you mean. You've read my thread.


M u s t
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g o
t h e r e.

\:\)


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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

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H4H - that is our new mantra!


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After all my recent events, I don't think I really give a sh**.




Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

M u s t
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g o
t h e r e.


That was my Captain Kirk voice, btw.


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Must remain logical Captain!


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Friday update = not much. Things still very cold in the Lost house since the tirade re OMW. Unfortunately the K's are getting a little more wrath again from WW. S13 is starting to talk back more, esp to WW.

As for me, no change. Not being questioned for why I am sleeping in our bed - at least WW gets that part it seems.

Oh well, let's see what today brings. Need to lift my spirits this morning as I am at a point today where I wish she would just leave...


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