Seeking to Post Palatably

[sgctxok]

I appreciate your perspective and feedback, especially because it was done in a respectful way. I do not remember deleting a thread of yours, but I will check it out.

I do not manage people in this position. I moderate a board according to the rule and policies of those for whom I perform that service. I am responding to you in an effort to promote healing.

(iii) Do not use words that posters have used against them. I noticed that an irate poster used the term Nazi - and you joined another poster in talking about this poster in a derogatory manner. That type of behavior promotes score-keeping. People say things they do not mean when they are irate. DB teaches us to not engage in score-keeping. To de-escalate - not escalate situations.

That's good feedback. I will learn from that. I too am human.
I am not a counselor. I am not a coach. I am a board moderator.


I do want to say something else you've caused me to consider. Religion. You mentioned a bias towards Christianity. I think the nature of the board attracts folks from Judeo-Christian-Muslim traditions. I'm not sure what might help other folks feel more 'welcome'...but if you have insight, I'd like to hear it.

We delete occasional threads, we do not globally delete.



I am sorry you are not happy here, I hope you will find happiness elsewhere.