For the Guy with kids and a WW5

[hopeful4her]

My plan going forward is to be polite, but not go out of my way for her. Just take care of myself and my kids. Stop planning and assuming things as a family together. I will answer her nicely, but not try to initiate convo unless I need to. Always remain upbeat. Nonchalant.

I have to distance myself from her.

If she calls me about meeting her for the doctor appointment today, I was thinking of telling her that maybe OM can go with her.

But I'm better than that.

I have to keep the high road. At this point, is there really a need for a talk? Maybe just factual stuff.

Has she signed the lease?
When does she plan on signing?
When is her move in date?
When is she going to cancel her direct deposit?
When can I expect her to cancel any auto payments from the joint account?
When does she want me to separate her cell phone into her own name?
Separate the car insurance?

Any other suggestions?

If things get out of hand or start going downhill, I'm going to tell her that if she has no intention of ending it with OM, just file the D papers.