Funny how your W seems to be questioning you suspiciously about your R with your mutual friend. My W is the same way with the female friend I have been hanging out with some times. The cheater worried about being cheated on. WTF? Also the desire not to be "talked about" or "judged" -- the hope that their actions will not have ramifications or are indicators of their character to the people around them. Mind boggler.
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My W has distanced herself from her REAL friends and only talks to the enabler GF. They're just stunned at what she's doing because they have been our friends for years and years and they KNOW she wasn't unhappy before (you can't fake happy that well).
My W to a T as well.
They all read the script, it seems.
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