Right there with ya Lodo. If there's one thing I've discovered in this mess it's what great friends I have. My W has distanced herself from her REAL friends and only talks to the enabler GF. They're just stunned at what she's doing because they have been our friends for years and years and they KNOW she wasn't unhappy before (you can't fake happy that well).

And I'm with you. Even though we're still together now, I'm not sure I even want to try if she figures this out. Don't know if/until we get to a point where she really wants to try, so I don't know yet, but each day it gets less and less likely.

Have a great weekend!


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.