Glad that you found me. She is renting and moving out 8/1/08. She asked me to pay the deposit, first months rent and wants me to help buy furniture for the kids rooms at her place. I said yes to all but it gets deducted from her settlement check.
She has now realized that after rent utilities, car costs, food and gas she will be broke every month. She has alreday started her campaign on the kids that "your father is and #@#%#^ and that is why I am broke". After she spend 3 days with them last weekend (she was with them not dropping them off at a sitter), she came back saying "those damn kids were in my face for 3 days" and said that will not be able to handle 50/50 custody and wants less time.
She is on the phone with OM 4 plus hours a day. I have no idea what they could talk about so long. She now has the deal to sign - it should be formal soon.
