Ok guys, how come no one has mentioned this yet?
lodo has a dinner party.
Dinner party is a female friend.
STBXW has returned early from 'the field'.
STBXW gets herself invited to dinner party.
Is this weird? Did she come home because she heard about your party? I suppose I am just missing some details.

Flubbed on the food? yeah, that sounds like a comment my H made when he was asked to give a little demo at my clinic last weekend. He was riding Stud Horse bridleless and loping circles and said he was doing a few extra circles because Stud Horse wasn't paying attention to him. The response from the crowd was 'can you train my horse to not pay attention that good?' as all watched with open jaw.

I can tell I flubbed the food when hot dogs split open or the grilled cheese turns black.

What's the big plan for a long holiday weekend?

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.