My boots sold for £36 (that's $71 to you guys)! And they went to..... stbx.
Yes, he bought them back for me. He sent me an ebay message saying that he thought they were a trophy of my overcoming some heavy issues (see here) and that I might be getting rid of them reluctantly. He wanted me to have the money and be able to keep them because they make me happy. He is right, although I think it showed that actually he might be finding the detaching harder than me - he's still emotionally inputting into me.
When I read his ebay message I sobbed and sobbed. I think it was because this is stbx at his best, and it was good to grieve for the good parts of our R. It's hard to cry over a R that quite frankly you are glad to be out of.
So it helped me in more ways than one.
Thanks darling!
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
