Well, I think you're right about that Rusty...there is the element of all the work involved in filing and getting a fair settlement when if I'm willing to live like this, it's so much easier for him.
To be fair, it's easier financially for me, too, to stay this way, but not emotionally. I'm still far too much attached to him.
He always backs away from the actual filing. We have gotten to the point of agreeing to find mediators and setting up meeting times, etc, only to have them fall through.
And I don't press it. I like living where I'm living and not dealing with certain things right now. But it will have to change.
Sigh.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
