Distressed, H always said "your approach sucks". lol
oh, & when you get a sec, could you point out the amazing part ?
Thanks for the congrats. I'm enjoying it, but there's a small part of me thats thinking...."it's too good to be true" & what if I jinx it, & there were other times that I thought we were doing great & out of the woods, then something would happen to mess it up & we'd have a huge fight.
I know, I know, just enjoy it. I'm trying.
Here is why I think you are an amazing woman.
You had, in you mind tryed and tryed and tryed to reach you H and let him now that you were unhappy and that he needed to treat you better. Like the DAM that he is he did not hear you. You were ready to leave to make yourself happy but you didn't.
You went to C on your own. Again you tryed to tell him and he did not listnen. Now for the great part you finally figured out that the only way to reach your H was to smack him upside the head with a club. You told him how he had hurt you, what you were planning on doing and what he need to do to change.
You continued for months to tell him what he need to do if he meet those needs you moved closer and gave him some affection when he didn't you smacked him upside the head with a club again. That is how we need to learn. We need to be told not once but many times what you want before we get it.
I wish my W would understand that. If she would just tell me exactly what I am doing right or wrong it would make it much easier.
Also anybody that fights for their M as you did deservers to be rewarded as you have. Too many people on this board do not. Keep it up and he knows if he does something wrong that club is always within your reach.
