Maybe there isn't any damage control needed? I mean, a nude beach isn't exactly a situation that you shouldn't be in. It's not like a porn video or something. But a talk with H might still be appropriate. Though, on the other hand, what's to gain?
Since we are tossing out far-fetched ideas, could H know about Hot Guy and be trying in his own back-a$$ward way of trying to screw things up for you? Now that he is not the only "man" in your life?
Seems odd that all of a sudden his world is turning to chit and someone starts messin' with you? Does H have this pic in his computer or could OW have access to it? Maybe she is retaliating for the article you sent her?
Why ask why? Hopefully they can figure out who it is and they will get in trouble for it...he who laughs last is usually the one not being taken into custody! Remember my penal system sampler. They are words to live by!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option