We continue to make progress with the communication issue W is really trying. I continue to get more and more out of her regarding her anger towards me, the latest is shes angry with me for not moving to England years ago (I said I would if things didn't work out here job wise ,and I thought they were) but she apparently had other ideas. In hind sight I should have moved back before the kids were born as I'm sure we would have ended up back here any way it's a much better enviroment for the kids here and I'm sure were a lot better off financialy (she knows this deep down). It saddens me though to see the pain she's going through, but I guess it's a part of the process. No snow yet J but any time now LOL! C.