Wii, like the post and the attitude you've curently taken/ Did the same with both xs myself. X1 took a few years to come around, and as you know (or maybe I've not made it clear in the past posts) everything is just fine as can be with an x. X1 will call up every now and then for dinner or invite me to a concert leaving her now H at home (sleeping). x1 comes over (yes she does have a key to my house), waters the plants, feeds the cats and fish when I'm on the road and roomy is out of town. So not getting revenge / getting even / just treat them like a decent human being can have its rewards years later. Best to take the "high road", better view from up there anyway. And that in my opinion is the way we should approach it. Guess we had a good teacher two thousands years back and it's good we are still paying attention to what he had to say. And then onto x2 of recent times. My answering machine is getting filled up from various financial institutions wanting call backs. For a week or so, thought they were wanting to contact roomy, but that wasn't the case after I cleared it up with her. After a few call backs asking what they wanted, well, turns out they were looking for x2. Skip-traces are pulling up my number from the past association and marriage.Of course I'm polite, ask them to remove my number and give them what info I can. No anger on my part or revenge thoughts. It just is. And of course the next day, as usual like I do every day, I ask Him to look after her (x2).
AT, not a good time of year to be asking Muriel out. Fireworks will be all about the night skies. Think about it. Charcoal, metal salts (they add the colors) and phosphates are the main components which are sought after this time of year. Muriel I am sure would prefer to be in a nice dark corner instead, safely tucked away. Have a little empathy.