Honestly, I can not see myself moving back to that house at all. If there would be a reconciliation, he will have to move here or we will find a new place. For me, right now that is a non-negotiable piece.
I definitely understand. While W was gone, I went over to check on things and when i walked back into the house I realized that I didn't think I'd be willing to live there ever again.
Of course, that option isn't on the table, but ...
