What did you do to woo her when you were dating? What were the things you did that no one else had ever done for her before that got her thinking, "That Jeff. Now, he's a keeper. I'm going to give him my heart and hope for the best."?
Well, of course I can only guess.
I paid attention to her, I listened to her. I treated her with respect (I get the feeling that there was at least one that didn't.) I got along with her parents. And, I think I gave her a way out of her parents house. You know, I don't think it was romantic, looking back. It was practical. Ick.