I have told him this is not changing where I live or where he lives. This is not to reconcile our differences or the past hurts/abuse/betrayals/resentments of the marriage.
It is for us to be able to learn better communication skills, so maybe we can address the past in a more constructive way. We may spend more time together to work on those skills, but right now I still need my space & place.
Honestly, I can not see myself moving back to that house at all. If there would be a reconciliation, he will have to move here or we will find a new place. For me, right now that is a non-negotiable piece.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
