Wow cookie - what a journey! It's a little staggering sometimes to realize what heights and depths we hold within ourselves ...
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So is that a polite way of saying "wow, that's f*cked up". LOL
And, you know there's more that I couldn't post. How messed up is that ??? & yet...here I am. H told me last night in bed "hun, you're doing awesome", "at what" I asked, "at everything, making me feel wanted, being warm, nice, friendly, with the kids, with school, with therapy, just everything". It boggles my mind where we were less than a year ago. With as much baggage as I was lugging around, if I can do it, anybody can, IF the other person is willing to try.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
