My first wife (the coke head) tried the same thing with me. She just wanted to have the older D (3yo) and not the 3mo. I told her my kids will never have a normal life as we are now. I can only give them so much. What I do know is they will AWAYS have each other. they are a pair.. take it or leave it.. so as long as I sent money to buy diapers and food for the girls she was ok with it. As soon as I started sending diapers and food with the girls she stopped seeing them.. Makes ya wonder how much coke I bought and did not even know it....
Doc
P.S I am not saying your wife is a coke head..Just that the kids should stay together
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
