A little update or journaling... Friday night W went to the movies with some friends...i declined and decided to spen a little time with D7. Later on W asked if we could meet up for a drink. What I liked about that was that she articulated that she wanted to spend some time with me...whicjh I found nice. Off to my mom's for a sleepover for D7. Friday night was nice as W and I spent a late evening together. Saturday was family day....shopping, followed by the Jazz festival and supper.....weather did not cooperate but a nice day nonetheless. We are now getting ready to have some friends over for the first time in ages.....weather is a little better so some BBQ (Souvlaki sticks in honour of everyone's fav. Greek). I may even sneek in a quick glimpse on Euro. As you can tell, things are looking pretty good. Hope everyone is having a nice weekend wherever you may be.
Did I imagine this or are you Canadian also? Have not been around much lately.....have some catching up to do tonight. Been busy helping out W with business related stuff and palnning our last minute vacation to the DR ( no Cubans or mojitos :-( ).
Planning is so much fun!!! I hope you and your W have a wonderful time in DR. (isn't it funny that Dominican Republic and Divorce Remedy have the same abbreviation?)
You've worked hard and deserve to enjoy the fruits of your labour!!!
DR.....I hope the Domenican will continue to contribute to the remedy.
I don't think I worked harder than anybody else. Sometimes I think that if I was a little more selfish and did not care about my D7 as much as I do, I would not have been as patient.
I feel kind of weird saying this but there is something that is broken (may be a little strong) between W and I....at least in my head / heart.
I am so HAPPY for you. You deserve it. Stay positive or I'll tell Woog. What is broken can't be fixed. But I don't think you mean broken. Bruises will go away. Give it some time. You are a good friend, thank you K
Is it possible you feel "broken" because picking up the pieces and moving through all the baggage (especially when I've heard that the WA doesn't generally like to talk about it much.. they'd rather forget it all happened) is awkward? It's got to feel unsteady loving someone... having a history with someone... but not yet trusting that someone. Or am I wrong? Are you able to trust her completely now?
W2G, that is a good question. I am a trusting guy in general...some would say too trusting. There is a part of me that wants to know what happened but I do not want to push it because as you say WASs do not want to go there. Maybe one day it will come out. I am not a stupid person...contrary to what some might think. I have a pretty good idea of what happened.
This morning W is very lovy dovy. She woke up before me and hugged me.....got up and came back 5 - 10 minutes later and did the same thing again.....this time she even added an ILY and said she is not taking care of me like she should (I think she meant nudge nudge). I replied that we are getting ready to go away for a week and that we would have plenty of time together. she has gone through alot recently in her professional life and I am trying to support her as best as I can. It is nice to see that she appreciates it.
OFF to Punta Cana for what will be a HOT and HUMID week. Not my idea of a vacation but W and D7 are looking forward to it. I will be on my best behaviour and try to make this a memorable week for all of us. The week away should do us some good. Things are almost back to normal....I don't think that I have changed too much....W is almost back to normal....Kind of scary when I start thinking about it.
To all our American buddies, have a nice July 4th. and be safe!
