my story adventures of a WAW!

[Forrest Gump]

9 times out of 10.. I go off the poster. You are there.. I am here. You are my eyes and my ears. All I ask.. is post what you feel. I don't want the sunshine.. I want the high points.

Simply think like a man.. and write it out.. LOL.

No.. really just write what you feel. Let me sort thru it.

I got a little from you on that last post.. so here goes.

"When i first realized that i wanted to work things out, i chased...it worked for a while. then, he started backing off....made excuses for not wanting to do things."

You left.. so maybe.. I would like to see some more action from you. Dating.. is a push/pull type thing. Maybe he was just seeing where you were.

"i'm not sure where i need to be, or how to get there. i just know i'm getting frustrated!!!"

I am a firm believer in the second you think it.. someone can see it.

"I'm afraid if I become to aggressive and start chasing him again, it will backfire in my face."

Leaving did the same thing.. nothing wrong with it.. you just have to understand his perception.. has changed. Who you are.. What you want to be.. factors into this a lot. Set the bar high.. reach for it.. if you miss.. you may still win.

"I'm between a rock and a hard place....and i don't like it!!!"

So you know you are stuck. No way out.. something needs to change. Question for you.. Who can I talk to? Who will have to change things? If you don't answer you to both of those questions.. I might have to talk some more.

"Just curious if you can get a read on what my H is thinking....he's a rather tough nut to crack. Just when I think I'm understanding him...he backs off or pulls something out of his hat."

Tell you what.. imagine I am him.. and fire it off at me.

Honestly the best way for me too see.. is for you to describe it from your perspective. Let the emotion go.. and just type it out. It has the side effect of feeling really good. It helps me see. I have a little Drama Queen in me.. and when I see it.. I know what to do.

Now...