my story adventures of a WAW!

[christarn]

Thanks FG....Still looking for a bumper sticker to say i've been gumped!!!

thanks for the input. I agree totally that he and I do this crazy dance...i'm just not sure on how to remedy the problem. When i first realized that i wanted to work things out, i chased...it worked for a while. then, he started backing off....made excuses for not wanting to do things. so i backed off. i'm not sure where i need to be, or how to get there. i just know i'm getting frustrated!!! I get the fact totally that time is on my side...but how long do you run from each other and the problems??

I'm afraid if I become to aggressive and start chasing him again, it will backfire in my face. If I do nothing, i will accomplish nothing and continue to be here stuck in my rut. I'm between a rock and a hard place....and i don't like it!!!

Just curious if you can get a read on what my H is thinking....he's a rather tough nut to crack. Just when I think I'm understanding him...he backs off or pulls something out of his hat.

thanks again FG!! as always great to hear from you and your input is appreciated!!

hugs 2 you!
christa