Thinking of you, Sara. You have had some insanely difficult times with your husband, yet you stood by him until your need for self-preservation kicked in. I'm profoundly impressed with your strength. Things can only get better!
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
Sara: I feel like I have been through the worst experience of my life. Nothing has hurt or been more disturbing to me than all of this. Life can only get better from here
Boy does it hurt, I cannot believe how much this crap hurts. I just want it to end, and I think the same thing, it has to get better from here.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
Sara you will have done the right thing throughout your situation. I know it hurts and this isn't the way you would have had it end, but all you can do now is take care of you and do what makes you happy. H has made his choices and now he will have to live with the consequences of those choices. Just be glad you are no longer a part of the drama that will be in store for him. If he brings her with him to get his stuff, there is nothing that says you have to allow her onto the property. Find out when he is coming for his stuff and set it out by the curb. I'm just kinda childish when it comes to that, she wouldn't be in my house for all the tea in China.
Take care, your in my thoughts. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
It's your house, you get to choose who is on the property. I wouldn't let her in my house over my dead body personally.
(((Sara)))
I would feel the same way!!! Isn't that considered trespassing or something? I think you have to have permission of the owner to be on the property which is you? I would def. check into that. And then if she is breaking the law call the police! Karen
