So I already had plans to take the kids hiking today and I called my wife and asked her if she could get the girls ready and that I would be over in a bit. She said OK. She texts me in a bit and said they are ready to go and waiting. I said ok I'm coming now.
She quick texts back and says wait a half hour before you come. So I said alright.
So I wait and I get there and notice that she is all dolled up. I could tell she just got out of the shower, she had new cloths on, make up, perfume and looked really great.
She was not going anywhere and the girls and I where using her van anyway.
So she was helping me get some last minute stuff together, water, a knapsack, stuff for the dogs etc. We were both in the laundry room and I just grabbed her, spun her around and gave her a big hug and a kiss on the top of the head and told her that I was not angry with her, but I was really upset. She squeezed me for a long time really hard to where it almost hurt.
She looked like she was ready to cry and she said you should be mad you have a lot to be mad about.
I then gave her another squeeze and reassured her that I'm not mad at her and let her go. Her got the rest of the stuff together and I took the girls hiking.
I don;t want to read into this much, but it was a really weird day. Do you think she is trying to punch my buttons and see if I'm going to get angry, jealous or even in a rage like I would in the past. If she did this in the past I would have got angry and snapped at her and we would have gotten into a huge argument. So I guess my actions to do where the biggest 180 she probably ever saw.
I'm wondering if she is testing me. I still don't know if there really is some guy she is seeing or not.
I'm wondering if I should just stick with what I'm doing and not contact her and just act as if I'm fine about moving on?
- Scott
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