Called OW's H. He was so nice. Surprised, but not really surprised that she is calling my H. OW told him awhile back that she was sad because my H wouldn't take her calls. She also told her H last week she was sad because she couldn't see MY daughter on her birthday. Oooookie dokie? In the next sentence she tells her H she wants to save the marriage. Basically he is numb at the moment, doesn't know what he wants (stay married or not). He says he is in a good place otherwise, going to school and enjoying his kids. We discussed how we were in such 'dark' places last summer, that we never want to relive that. He was glad I called, and said I did the right thing by letting him know, even though he suspected as much.
Glad I called, but that's it for me. No need to call again.
