Maybe, Rusty. I have asked him several times during the 5 years why we are not divorced yet, and he always sighs and says, "I don't know."

He also tried the bit about him being afraid I wouldn't be able to take care of myself.

I'm thinking he doesn't file because of the money.

He told me yesterday that he is seeing several "someones."

Hurt to hear that, for sure.

Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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