Sawks, maybe I'm not understanding this, or it works different in Canada, but you're not even separated! What does Separation date mean when you're still living together? And I know here in the States if you have sex (which happens in most of our sitches), the judge can reset the S date. The statement is "living together as husband and wife" which the judge can interpret.

As for the papers sitting in your trunk, what else would you do with them? Now it's just wait a year, right?

You're doing great bro. Your reaction was perfect. The legal stuff doesn't matter. It's really weird to me that she hasn't moved out, made any plans, anything. That's usually the first thing a WAW does.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK