Sara you will have done the right thing throughout your situation. I know it hurts and this isn't the way you would have had it end, but all you can do now is take care of you and do what makes you happy. H has made his choices and now he will have to live with the consequences of those choices. Just be glad you are no longer a part of the drama that will be in store for him. If he brings her with him to get his stuff, there is nothing that says you have to allow her onto the property. Find out when he is coming for his stuff and set it out by the curb. I'm just kinda childish when it comes to that, she wouldn't be in my house for all the tea in China.
Take care, your in my thoughts. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option