Well I usually make the plans.. I am not even sure he wants to do anything, but he has asked if I had anything in mind... now I don't know what to say.. Although a girl friend of mine has asked if I wanted to do something... do I take the opportunity to let him be alone, or spend the time with him?? My D is going with friends I am sure... she does not want to hang out with her STBD parents... I think its awkward for her.. to see us together but not together..


Me - 38
H-36
DD - 15
S- 19
Together -almost 18 years
M - 16
The Bomb - May 24th 2008
Meeting with Michelle July 7, 2008
Status - I moved out Sept 2009